Showing posts with label Catholic education. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Catholic education. Show all posts

Monday, January 16, 2012

An Open Letter to All My Former Students



Dear Friends,

It feels funny this year not to be directly involved with the education of high school students after 20 years of formal work in Catholic education. For those of you who may be unaware, this past June after accepting my current assignment as pastor at St. Joseph Church in Somers Point, NJ, I am no longer part of Sacred Heart High School (Vineland)—having spent 14 wonderful years there. I had also happily served 6 years at St. Joseph High School (Hammonton).

I never really related to too many people the story of how I wound up working in Catholic education. Each year the Priest Personnel Office for the Diocese of Camden would send us a form to fill out. One of the questions on the form (at the time) asked if we, as priests, would be interested in the Catholic education apostolate. So I checked the box indicating yes. A few weeks later Bishop James T. McHugh who was then Bishop of Camden called me into his office. I remember the conversation like it was yesterday: “So I see you are interested in Catholic education. I want to assign you to high school work. But first I want you to commit to 10 years in this apostolate. I don’t want to make it a life sentence for any of my priests. But I do want you to give me 10 years. Will you do that?” I agreed to what the bishop asked of me. Twenty years later, having been through two subsequent bishops (Bishops DiMarzio and Galante), I am no longer directly involved in high school work. I, however, have a flourishing elementary school of over 500 students just across the street from my rectory and I try to teach the 8th grade students there each month!

Why I write this letter is to remind all those I have ever taught in any capacity whatsoever what the true mission of Catholic education is. I have certainly been overjoyed when I see that my former students are successful in their careers, when they were accepted into some of the best colleges, universities and schools throughout the country and when they have done various works in the community to make me proud. However, what brings me the most indescribable satisfaction is when I see my former students fully living out the teachings of the Catholic faith. Even if you were one of my students of another faith background, I am as proud as a parent when you—all of you—strive to guide your lives by the teachings of Jesus Christ.

Hanging on the wall of my first high school assignment (at St. Joseph's) was this sign: 

Let it be known to all who enter here that Jesus Christ is the reason for this school, the unseen but ever-present teacher in all its classes, the model of its faculty, and the inspiration for its staff and students.

Each day during my years in Catholic high school education, when I entered the school building, prayed before the Blessed Sacrament in the chapel, offered holy Mass in that same chapel or the nearby church, I thought of and tried to embody the words of this sign.

I know deep down in my heart that any of the accomplishments that the world and society may deem “successful” really mean absolutely nothing, if Jesus Christ is not part of our lives and our actions. The prestigious jobs, the advanced degrees, wealth, fame, fortune, etc. etc. are so temporary and passing. Any situation can change in an instant by death or tragedy. However, Jesus Christ, His words and His teachings are forever.

This simple but challenging principle—trying to live as Jesus taught—has guided and motivated me my entire life. I realize, like you probably do, that we all struggle and even occasionally fail in our attempt to fully live out the Gospel. Yet, I have never lost sight of the tremendous love, mercy, and forgiveness that Jesus offers to each of us as sinners.

Hopefully, even if you never paid attention to a word that I said in the classroom or a homily that I uttered from the pulpit you will listen to this: 

If you don’t have Jesus Christ with you as part of your lives, part of your families and part of your everyday actions, you are missing out on the true meaning of what life is all about.

This is what your Catholic education, if properly taught and heeded, intended to instill in you.

Don’t forget that we are also called to give what we have received. Jesus instructed His disciples the following regarding their faith: “Without cost you have received; without cost you are to give.” (Mt. 10: 8) Give your time, talent or treasure, back to your school, back to your church, back to your community and society. Give the faith--faith in Jesus--to your family. Don’t ever be so self-absorbed that you only care for yourself and your own needs.

And remember this please: if there is anything within my power that I can do spiritually for you as a priest, I remain here for you. I, first and foremost, think of myself as your priest no matter what other position I held. While I may have sometimes fallen short of expectations, I, nevertheless, tried dilligently to be a faithful servant of the Lord Jesus as His priest.

You are remembered in my prayers and as I approach the altar for Mass each day. Please don’t forget to pray for me once in a while. I need and depend upon your prayers to sustain me.

In Jesus,

Fr. Ed

Monday, June 6, 2011

Baccalaureate Mass Homily 2011




Sacred Heart High School, Vineland, NJ
June 6, 2011

(Readings: Sirach 50: 22-24; Philippians 4: 6-9; Luke 8: 4-15)

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A student took his report card home and showed it to his mother.
The mother was very disappointed by all of the very low grades.
“Well, look on the bright side mom” the child said, “you know for sure I don’t cheat.”
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“A sower went out to sow his seed.”
A teacher began to teach her lesson.
A coach started instructing and drilling his team.
Some parents sat down to explain something to their child.
A priest began to preach his homily.

How will the message that they want to impart be received?

We’ve probably all heard the expression: “My words fell on deaf ears.”

We never quite know how what we say or teach will be perceived, or comprehended, or acted upon. There is a certain uncertainty and the possibility of disappointment that even Jesus experienced in the instructional process.

As you, the graduating class of 2011, finish your time here at Sacred Heart High School, I hope that you have learned many valuable lessons, or at least have received the necessary tools to allow you to continue the process of learning. Grades and degrees are, without a doubt, important within the educational system as we know it. You don’t reach this day without the required amount of tests, papers, reports, projects and satisfactory grades.

Yet, I encourage you to ponder often the words of Mark Twain: “I have never let my schooling interfere with my education.”

Life’s lessons go far beyond the classroom or school building—no matter how prestigious the institution.

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There are two things in particular that I want you to remember from my words today:

First, there is no way to give a grade, to accurately evaluate, or to award an appropriate degree for the decisions and choices that you will make along the road of life.

To use the words of St. Paul in today’s second reading: “Keep on doing what you have learned and received and heard and seen” in the Christ–centered Catholic education that you have experienced here at Sacred Heart.

Will the teachings of the Scriptures guide your lives?

Will you succumb to the values of the society in which we live and ignore Church teachings as so many do?

Will your Catholic faith matter to you, especially when you are called to witness publicly to it?

Will the Eucharist that we celebrate here today be the last for many years or will it become something integral to your spiritual life, providing sustenance during your college years and beyond?

Simply stated, will your actions reflect Jesus Christ by what you think, say and do in the years ahead?

No teacher, no school—no one except God Himself can evaluate you accurately in these areas.

Second, no parent, friend or even future spouse—no matter how intimate the relationship—can truly know you in the manner in which you will be known by God.

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son . . .” (John 3:16)

God loves us. The Sacred Heart of Jesus expresses this love to us. God wants us to know Him intimately as He already knows us.

Through God’s grace, we can experience the joy of this intimacy. To live in His grace, we have to avoid sin. And we need to pray as we are reminded in today’s second reading:

Have no anxiety at all, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. Then the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4: 6-7)

Prayer takes perseverance.

Sometimes it may seem that God is distant or that He is not listening. But I assure you that He is always there.

He is always listening to us. Always.

Today’s technology has allowed us to communicate and to connect with family and friends far and wide. “Social networking” allows others rapidly to see both our accomplishments and our exploits. However, no matter how great the technological capabilities, God can only be reached by that quiet time alone in prayer in which He probes our thoughts, influences our actions and strengthens our resolve.

Pray often. Pray well. Pray from the heart. Pray when you feel like it, but more so when you do not.

Pray, pray, pray.

In conclusion, I remind you of the anticipated benefits of allowing today’s message—the message of the Gospel—to enter your minds and to penetrate your hearts:

. . . Some seed fell on good soil, and when it grew, it produced fruit a hundredfold. After saying this, (Jesus) called out, "Whoever has ears to hear ought to hear."

. . . As for the seed that fell on rich soil, they are the ones who, when they have heard the word, embrace it with a generous and good heart, and bear fruit through perseverance. (Luke 8: 8, 15)

May God’s Word penetrate your minds and hearts.

Bear good fruit. Go out and make me proud.

God bless you today and always.